Dr Lara Zib

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How to Tell If You’re Really Hungry (Hint: It’s More Than Just a Growling Stomach)

You’ve probably heard the advice: “Just listen to your body!” when it comes to eating. But what does that really mean?

For many people - especially those recovering from years of dieting or disordered eating - tuning into hunger signals can feel confusing or even impossible.

Here’s the thing: rebuilding trust with your body takes time, and it starts with understanding what physical hunger feels like. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about a growling stomach.

In this blog, I’ll break down how to recognise hunger cues, why they matter, and actionable tips to help you reconnect with your body to create mindful eating habits.

Why Recognising Hunger Signals Is Important
For those recovering from dieting or disordered eating, hunger signals might feel dulled after years of ignoring them.

Learning to recognise these signals is key to:

  • Rebuilding trust with your body.

  • Letting go of rigid food rules and eating guilt-free.

  • Avoiding energy crashes, mood swings, or overeating because you were overly hungry.

When you know what hunger looks and feels like, you can stop second-guessing yourself and honour your body’s needs with confidence.

4 Key Signs of Physical Hunger

#1 Low Energy
Are you feeling sluggish, tired, or having trouble focusing? These are common signs that your body needs fuel. Hunger isn’t always dramatic—it can show up as a subtle decrease in energy or brain fog.

    • Tip: If you find yourself reaching for caffeine to boost your focus, pause and check whether your body needs food instead.

#2 Physical Sensations
Hunger isn’t always about a growling stomach. It might feel like:

    • Lightheadedness or dizziness.

    • Shakiness or an empty sensation in your throat.

    • A general feeling of discomfort.

    • Tip: These sensations often intensify the longer you ignore hunger, so tuning in early is key.

#3 Mood Changes
Ever felt “hangry”? Irritability, short temper, or sudden frustration can all signal that your blood sugar is low and your body’s energy reserves are running on empty.

    • Reminder: Mood swings tied to hunger are your body’s SOS - ignoring them often leads to overeating later.

#4 Persistent Thoughts About Food
When you’re truly hungry, most foods sound good - not just specific cravings like chips or chocolate. This is your brain’s way of nudging you to replenish energy.

    • Reminder: If you’re preoccupied with thoughts about food and open to eating a balanced snack or meal, that’s a reliable hunger cue.

 

How to Reconnect With Your Hunger Cues

If you’ve been out of touch with your body’s signals, here are a few steps to help rebuild that connection:

Start with Curiosity, Not Judgment
When you notice a hunger cue, take a moment to observe it. Where do you feel it? How strong is it? Let curiosity guide you rather than self-criticism.

Practice Consistent Eating Patterns
Eating regular meals and snacks throughout the day helps your body establish reliable hunger and fullness patterns.

Try a Hunger Scale
Use a 1–10 scale to rate your hunger before eating (1 = starving, 10 = uncomfortably full). Aim to eat when you’re at a 3–4 (moderate hunger) and stop at a 6–7 (satisfied, but not stuffed).

Honour Your Signals Without Delay
Trust that your body knows when it needs fuel, and respond quickly. The more you honour these signals, the more reliable they become over time.

 

Final Thoughts

Hunger is your body’s way of communicating its needs - it’s not something to fear or ignore. By learning to recognise and honour your hunger cues, you’re taking an important step toward a healthier, more trusting relationship with your body and food.